Friday, 16 April 2010

What if I'm not

What if I'm not going to be a good friend?
What if I'm not going to be a good uni student?
What if I'm not going to be a good nurse?
What if I'm not going to be a good wife?
What if I'm not going to be a good Mother?
What if I'm not going to be a good Christian?
What if I'm not going to be good?


sunshine said...

What if's are worth considering for more than a moment...if we lived on "what if's" we'd never do or be anything.

And anyway, you won't just be good at those things, you'll be amazing :)


Jessie said...

But what if you are? You are a good friend and you are a kind, caring person and I can't believe that you won't be good and have a good meaningful life. In fact you already do. It's so easy for us to judge and doubt ourselves but really you are a strong, wonderful person. You shouldn't second guess yourself.

mariposai said...

Sunshine is right, we can't live on what-ifs. Love yourself for who you are and who you will be, and accept that this is/will be a lovely person :-)

Sarah x

Anonymous said...

What if you are going to be good?. Live in the moments, no what if's. :)


i love bows:) said...

exactly what everyone else said!

what if everything you want is actually possible?
what if you miss a chance because yo have lost so much in thinking of the doubts?

sweetie, if there is one thing i know for sure right now-its that sometimes you have to take that leap of faith, trust your self, hold your head high-and take a chance.

ive balsed up so much roht now from thinking 'what if'.

it doesnt need to be like that babe:)

sometimes you have to really trust the first thing that comes in to your head:) and not the doubts that follow!

you are brilliant.i know how fabulous you are, and what you can achieve:)

thankyou for your amazingly helpful food ideas:)

lots of love as always
email me anytime
vics xxxxx

Sairs said...

live in the moment hun, they are better than what if's when the moment has passed, so has the what if because it was only a moment ago! That probably made no sese whatsoever.

You are awesome by the way :-)


i love bows:) said...

i really like your pretty bird blog babe!
thanks for your super sweet comment:)funnily enough, yours is top of my list too:))))


send me an email if you fancy, tell me how you are doing.i can send you some more stuff to look through if you like.naughty battle with the temazipam!thats fierce stuff!haha

oooh was going to send you some clothes patterns/instructions to give myself something to do-what sort of thing do you want to start with?any ideas?:)

love vics xxxx

Jenn said...

I agree with ALL that has been said, I am commenting too late to have anything profound to say because it's all been said but... I also understand your fears and don't want to minimize them.

The fears are real but NOT ACURATE!!!

hang in there, your gonna get through this : )

Anonymous said...

I agree with everyone else. Life is full of 'what ifs.' Yes there is a chance that those things that you've mentioned could happen. But there is also a very good chance it won't, and you will be a good friend, a good Uni student, a good nurse, wife, Christian etc. You don't know what's going to happen next, and there's only one way to find out. Hopefully good things will be coming your way.
Take care,
Cassie x